Chapter Three                                                     

Sharing     

• Share your dreams with each other         

You must be prepared to share your dreams with each other and then work together on the ones that are similar. The power of two is a lot more than the power of one twice.  You will have an energy that only comes from two people working together in harmony for the same purpose that will surprise you beyond belief.  

You will be drawn together like never before, you will want to help each other to the utmost because it will be a labour of love and passion that will excite you so much you will not want to stop.         

Some people will not want to state what their dreams are because they might think the other person will think they are silly or unobtainable. You have to overcome this fear and most times you will discover the other person has similar dreams.  Knowing this you will be drawn together for more happiness.  

• Share your goals with each other 

If you have set goals then share them and wherever possible do the work together to obtain the power of two to bring the goal to fruition much sooner. In the future try and set goals that are beneficial to the partnership and that way you will want to combine your efforts to reach your goal a lot sooner. 

• Share your aspirations with each other  

Tell each other what you aspire to. Your partner will no doubt encourage and help you to obtain whatever your aspirations are. Remember the old saying, “The more you give th e more you receive ”. 

• Share your thoughts with each other 

Always share your thought with each other as many a good idea has been lost to due the person thinking it was not worthwhile. We all need encouragement from time to time to help us along this sometimes  perilous track we call life. "man's greatness lies in the power of thought" 

·          Share your positive feelings with each other but be aware of negative feelings so as you can consciously change to positive ones if negative ones arise. 

Feelings, you might ask what are feelings!  Well there are Positive & Negative Feelings as follows: 

Positive Feelings 

Intense 

loved, adored, idolized, alive, wanted, lustful, worthy, pity, respected, empathy, awed, enthusiastic, zealous, courageous 

Strong  

enchanted, ardor, infatuated, tender, vibrant, independent, capable, happy , proud, gratified, worthy, sympathetic, important, concerned, appreciated, consoled, delighted, eager, optimistic, joyful, courage, hopeful, valiant, brave, brilliant 

Moderate 

liked, cared for, esteemed, affectionate, fond, excited, patient, strong, gay, inspired, anticipating, amused, yearning, popular, peaceful, appealing, determined, pleased, excited, jolly, relieved, glad, adventurous, peaceful, intelligent 

Mild 

friendly, regarded, benevolent, wide awake, at-ease, relaxed, comfortable, content, keen, amazed, alert, sure, attractive, approved, untroubled, graceful, turned on, warm, amused, daring, comfortable, smart, interested 

Negative Feelings  

Mild  

unpopular, listless, moody, lethargic, gloomy, dismal, discontented, tired, indifferent, unsure, impatient, dependent, unimportant, regretful, bashful, puzzled, self-conscious, edgy, upset, reluctant, timid, mixed-up, sullen, provoked 

Moderate  

suspicious, envious, enmity, aversion, dejected, unhappy, bored, forlorn, disappointed, wearied, inadequate, ineffectual, helpless, resigned, apathetic, shy, uncomfortable, baffled, confused, nervous, tempted, tense, worried, perplexed, troubled, disdainful, contemptuous, alarmed, annoyed, provoked 

Strong 

disgusted, resentful, bitter, detested, fed-up, frustrated, sad, depressed, sick, dissatisfied, fatigued, worn-out, useless, weak, hopeless, forlorn, rejected, guilty, embarrassed, inhibited, bewildered, frightened, anxious, dismayed, apprehensive, disturbed, antagonistic, vengeful, indignant, mad, torn 

Intense 

hate, unloved, abhor, despised, angry, hurt, miserable, pain, lonely, cynical, worthless, impotent, futile, accursed, abandoned, estranged, degraded, humiliated, shocked, panicky, trapped, horrified, afraid, scared, terrified, threatened, infuriated, furious, exhausted 

Well I bet you didn’t think you could have so many feelings! 

• Share your longings with each other 

By sharing your longings with each other you might find that your partner can fulfil what was once a strong persistent yearning that you thought could never be fulfilled. Even if that is not the case they say a problem shared is a problem halved. On the flip side it will bring you closer together. 

• Habits  

What can I say apart from get some more good ones so you will not have time for your bad ones. 

• Working together 

Give each other space so they can be themselves. 

• Working apart 

Share each others day which will bring you closer together. 

• Share your wants with each other 

Wants are things or thoughts that we would like to have but do not necessarily need. By the mere act of sharing with your partner you may find your want is fulfilled.  

• Share your needs with each other 

By sharing your needs you will work together to fulfill them as a matter of urgency. Don’t forget th at by doing it together you have the power of 2 which can overcome just about anything. 

• Share your commitment to each other with each other 

By making a commitment to each other and sharing it with each other “in writing” so you can look at it often and improve on it makes it a real living document and something that you commit yourself to 100%.